Younger colleagues and students frequently ask me how I planned my path. 比我年轻的同事和学生经常问我是怎样进行职业规划的, When I tell them that I didn't, they usually react with surprise followed by relief. 当我说自己其

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I returned to D C. with a plan to attend law school, 当我返回华盛顿后,原计划去上法学院, but Lant Pritchett, an economist in Larry's office who has devoted his life to the study of poverty, persuaded me that business school would b

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He wanted to meet with me and made it clear that he only needed a few minutes of my time to ask for introductions to some people who could help expand his organization. 他明确地说只是占用我几分钟时间,希望我能介绍他认识某位能

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Given this, I believe we have sent the wrong message to young women. 考虑到这一点,我认为我们向年轻女性传达了错误的讯息, We need to stop telling them, Get a mentor and you will excel. 事实上不是找个导师你就能变得

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These three, among so many others, have encouraged me, made introductions, and taught me by example. 这三位,还有其他许多人,都曾给我以鼓励,为我引介别人,并以身作则地教导我。 Their wisdom helped me avoid mistakes

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The more satisfied a person is with her position, the less likely she is to leave. 一个人对自己的职位越满意,就越不可能辞职。 So the ironyand, to me, the tragedyis that women wind up leaving the workforce precisely because of thi

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When he came to her again with yet another question, she turned to him with a huge smile and said, 当他几天后找莱文提问题时,莱文笑容满面地对他说: I am going to answer all of your questions. I really am. 你的所有问题我都

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A sandwich, carrot sticks, a cut-up apple, pretzels, and a cookie, Scott said. 一个三明治,几根胡萝卜条,一只苹果,椒盐饼干还有曲奇饼。 He hung up smiling and explained that his wife was asking what she should put in the k

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A 2009 survey found that only 9 percent of people in dual-earner marriages said that they shared housework, child care, and breadwinning evenly. 2009年的一项调查发现,双薪家庭里只有9%的夫妻表示会共同分担家务劳动,一同承

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Dave had founded a company, Launch Media, in L.A. and sold it to Yahoo years earlier. 那一年,戴夫在洛杉矶创立了开启传媒公司,这家公司十几年前被雅虎收购。 Yahoo's headquarters were in Northern California, where I liv

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It was all worth it when my son was pronounced healthy and the nausea that I had felt for nine straight months vanished within an hour. 当医生宣布我的儿子非常健康时,我觉得所有的痛苦都是值得的,9个月持续不断的妊娠反

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Chapter 8 Make Your Partner a Real Partner 第8章 让你的另一半成为你真正的人生搭档 Being a mother has been an amazing experience for me. Giving birth was not. 做母亲对我来说是相当不可思议的经历,但分娩过程却不是

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In that moment, Debi said she felt her own ambitions shift. 黑梅特尔说,在那一刻她感到自己心里的希望破灭了。 As Debi told me, It seemed like if this extraordinary woman couldn't make it work, who could? 她说:如果连这么出

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For many men, the fundamental assumption is that they can have both a successful professional life and a fulfilling personal life. 对男人来说,有一个重要的基本假设是,他们既可以拥有成功的职业生涯,也可以拥有满意的

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My girlfriends, however, expressed shock and horror that I would leave my boyfriend at the time to live abroad for a year. 但听说我要离开当时的男友到国外居住一年,我的女伴们都一脸的震惊和恐惧, My relatives asked wh

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Instead, use the beginning of a relationship to establish the division of labor, 如果刚开始就建立起恰当的分工模式, just as Nora Ephron's dialogue in When Harry Met Sally reminds us: 就像电影《当哈利遇上莎莉》中的一段对

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Chapter 9 The Myth of Doing It All 第9章 全能女人是个神话 Having it all. Perhaps the greatest trap ever set for women was the coining of this phrase. 拥有一切也许是女人遭遇的最大陷阱。 Bandied about in speeches, headlines,

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At the time, I thought to myself, Yup, she should not have admitted that publicly. 当时我心里想的是:噢,她的确不应该说出这件事。 Now that I'm a parent, I think this woman was a genius. 当了母亲以后,我才觉得这个女人

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I believed that others were demanding this of me my bosses at work and my daughter at home. 我认为别人也都期待我这么做工作是老板的要求,在家陪护是我女儿的要求。 But in truth, I was torturing myself. 但说实话,我完

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They tracked more than one thousand children over the course of fifteen years, 之后对1 000多名儿童进行了为期15年的跟踪研究, repeatedly assessing the children's cognitive skills, language abilities, and social behaviors. 反复地评

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