向前一步:第20期 职业女性的内在障碍(9)

Instead, I moved to Washington, D C., which was full of eligible men. 于是我转而去了华盛顿特区，那里尽是适合结婚的男人。 It worked. My first year out of college, I met a man who was not just eligible, but also wonderful, so I

向前一步:第22期 职业女性的内在障碍(11)

Still, in today's world, where we no longer have to hunt in the wild for our food, 然而，在今天的世界中，人类不再像古代那样必须在野外觅食打猎， our desire for leadership is largely a culturally created and reinforced tra

向前一步:第23期 职业女性的内在障碍(12)

When a girl tries to lead, she is often labeled bossy. 当一个女孩尝试领导者角色时，她常被贴上爱使唤人的标签。 Boys are seldom called bossy because a boy taking the role of a boss does not surprise or offend. 男孩则很少被

向前一步:第24期 职业女性的内在障碍(13)

Initially, as a one-year-old and a three-year-old, we were worthless and weak. Disorganized, lazy. 最初呢，我们俩一个1岁，一个3岁，没什么用，不但软弱，而且行为随便、懒惰。 We would just as soon spit up on ourselves

向前一步:第25期 职业女性的内在障碍(14)

I was recently reminded that these patterns persist even when we are all grown up. 近来有人提醒我，这些模式即使当我们都长大成人了也会持续下去。 Not long ago, at a small dinner with other business executives, the guest of

向前一步:第26期 职业女性的内在障碍(15)

My favorite song, William's Doll, is about a five-year-old boy who begs his reluctant father to buy him a traditional girl's toy. 我最喜欢其中的一首歌《威廉想要个娃娃》，讲的是一个5岁的男孩恳求父亲给他买一个女孩玩

向前一步:第27期 职业女性的内在障碍(16)

Compounding the problem is a social-psychological phenomenon called stereotype threat. 把问题往复杂了说，这就是成见威胁。 Social scientists have observed that when members of a group are made aware of a negative stereotype, 社会科学

向前一步:第28期 职业女性的内在障碍(17)

A study found that of Millennial men and women who work in an organization with a woman in a senior role, 研究发现，在有一位女性高管的组织中，那些80后、90后的女性中， only about 20 percent want to emulate her career. 只有

向前一步:第29期 职业女性的内在障碍(18)

For many men, the fundamental assumption is that they can have both a successful professional life and a fulfilling personal life. 对男人来说，有一个重要的基本假设是，他们既可以拥有成功的职业生涯，也可以拥有满意的

向前一步:第136期 不要身还在 心已远(10)

One of the immediate questions new parents face is who will provide primary care for a child. 为人父母面临的首要问题之一，便是由谁承担照顾孩子的主要任务。 The historical choice has been the mother. 传统上都是把孩子

向前一步:第137期 不要身还在 心已远(11)

Obviously, their reasons for staying home are vastly different. 显然，女性决定做全职妈妈的原因各不相同。 Mothers married to the lowest-earning men struggle to find jobs that pay enough to cover child care costs, which are increasi

向前一步:第138期 不要身还在 心已远(12)

While it's hard to predict how an individual will react to becoming a parent, it's easy to predict society's reaction. 一个人升格为家长之后的反应很难预测，但我们很容易看到社会对他们的期待。 When a couple announces t

向前一步:第139期 不要身还在 心已远(13)

Imagine that a career is like a marathona long, grueling, and ultimately rewarding endeavor. 我们可以把事业想象成马拉松一项历时漫长、备受磨炼最后可能有所收获的运动。 Now imagine a marathon where both men and women

向前一步:第140期 不要身还在 心已远(14)

In that moment, Debi said she felt her own ambitions shift. 黑梅特尔说，在那一刻她感到自己心里的希望破灭了。 As Debi told me, It seemed like if this extraordinary woman couldn't make it work, who could? 她说：如果连这么出

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Although pundits and politicians, usually male, often claim that motherhood is the most important and difficult work of all, 学者和政治家（通常是男性）常常宣称做母亲是人生中最重要也是最困难的工作， women who take t

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But she thought about all the time and money she had already invested in her career and didn't see how walking away made economic sense either. 但她回想起自己已经在事业中投入的时间和金钱成本，这让她确定自己离开职场也

向前一步:第143期 让你的另一半成为你真正的人生搭档(1)

Chapter 8 Make Your Partner a Real Partner 第8章 让你的另一半成为你真正的人生搭档 Being a mother has been an amazing experience for me. Giving birth was not. 做母亲对我来说是相当不可思议的经历，但分娩过程却不是

向前一步:第144期 让你的另一半成为你真正的人生搭档(2)

It was all worth it when my son was pronounced healthy and the nausea that I had felt for nine straight months vanished within an hour. 当医生宣布我的儿子非常健康时，我觉得所有的痛苦都是值得的，9个月持续不断的妊娠反

向前一步:第145期 让你的另一半成为你真正的人生搭档(3)

She said, You're just a few months away from having a baby, 她却说：还有几个月你就生了， so surely you and your husband have thought about who is going to pick up your child if he is sick at school? 显然你和你丈夫都已经考虑过

向前一步:第146期 让你的另一半成为你真正的人生搭档(4)

Dave had founded a company, Launch Media, in L.A. and sold it to Yahoo years earlier. 那一年，戴夫在洛杉矶创立了开启传媒公司，这家公司十几年前被雅虎收购。 Yahoo's headquarters were in Northern California, where I liv