I learned something today, she said. 我今天学到了一些东西。她说。 What? I asked, feeling good, as I figured she was about to tell me how my words had touched her. 我感觉良好地问她学到了什么,以为她会称赞我的讲话有
He was very supportive of Vicki's career and used to urge her to bill like a boy. 他很支持维姬的事业,总是鼓励她像个男人一样去要账。 His view was that the men considered any time they spent thinking about an issueeven time in
This put me ahead of First Lady Michelle Obama and Indian politician Sonia Gandhi. Absurd. 而且,我居然排在米歇尔奥巴马和索尼娅甘地的前面,这太荒谬了。 My own mother called to say, Well, dear, I do think you are very pow
I know that my success comes from hard work, help from others, and being at the right place at the right time. 我知道,我的成功来自于勤奋的工作、他人的帮助以及在正确的时间站在了正确的地方。 I feel a deep and end
Chapter 3 Success and Likeability 第3章 要成功,也要受欢迎 Okay, so all a woman has to do is ignore society's expectations, be ambitious, sit at the table, work hard, and then it's smooth sailing all the way. 好吧,如果一个女人要做
This experiment supports what research has already clearly shown: 这项实验支持了根据海蒂案例研究得出的明确结论: success and likeability are positively correlated for men and negatively correlated for women. 对男性来说,成
Most women have never heard of the Heidi/Howard study. 大多数女性从未听说过海蒂/霍华德研究, Most of us are never told about this downside of achievement. 我们中的大多数人也从未听说过这项研究的负面结果。 Stil
Unlike the other six winners, I didn't let my award status become general knowledge. 我没像那6个男生一样将自己的荣誉大肆炫耀, I told only my closest friend, Stephen Paul, and knew he would keep my secret. 我只告诉了自己最亲
向前一步(MP3+中英字幕):第55期 要成功 也要受欢迎(6)Years later, when I learned about the Heidi/Howard case study, I understood the reason why. 多年后,当我了解霍华德/海蒂案例后,终于明白了这是为什么。 Bein
I never really thought about why I went to such efforts to mute my achievements from such a young age. 我从没真正想过,为什么我在这么年轻时,就会如此努力地隐藏自己的成就。 Then, about ten years after I graduated from
Nothing has changed since high school; intelligence and success are not clear paths to popularity at any age. 自打我读高中以后,一切都没有改变,智慧和成功对于任何年龄的女人来说都不是受人欢迎的主要因素。 T
Owning one's success is key to achieving more success. 真正认同自己的成功,对于实现更大的成功至关重要。 Professional advancement depends upon people believing that an employee is contributing to good results. 职场成就取决于
Because of these unfair expectations, women find themselves in damned if they do and doomed if they don't situations. 由于这些不公平的期待,女性发现自己处于如果做就会烦恼和不做注定会更糟的两难境地。 This is esp
Truth is also better served by using simple language. 简洁的语言也有助于真实想法的表达。 Office-speak often contains nuances and parentheticals that can bury not just the lead but the entire point. 办公语言在措辞上常有的细微
Eventually, she got frustrated and just blurted out, My manager is bad! 最后这位女员工很挫败地脱口而出:我的经理很坏! She was still speaking Chinese, but simply enough that Mark understood. 说的还是中文,但足够简单,
I love hearing my son explain to my daughter, I'm sorry you're upset because you lost at Monopoly, but I'm older than you so I should win. 我很乐意听到我的儿子对他妹妹解释:我很抱歉看到你因为输了大富翁游戏而不高兴,
About ten senior staffers were sitting at the table when we entered. 我们走进会议室时,已经有十几位高级职员坐在桌前了。 Since I knew nothing about the topic, I took a seat in the back corner of the room (yup, not even close t
This got repeated as Rubin likes gold, and someone spent millions of dollars to please the new boss. 这句话经过多次转述后被演绎成了鲁宾对黄金感兴趣。随后,就有人打算花费数百万美元来取悦这位新老板。 More
I got onstage in front of our entire sales team and apologized for the misunderstanding. 于是,我召集整个销售团队,当着大家的面为这次误会道歉。 I also let them know that if they hear a bad idea, even one they believe is com
One day, she and I hosted a tricky client meeting. 有一天,我们一起主持一个有点儿棘手的客户会议, She navigated the discussion effectively, and after the clients left, I praised her effort. 期间她准确、高效地引导了讨
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