But each time, they were gnawing at me, eating at me. 但每当我想到这两起病例, 那种感觉都会折磨啃噬我。 And I'd like to be able to say to you 而我也希望我可以告诉你, that my worst mistakes only happened in the first
So Archie splits the men under his care as best he can into two equal groups. 所以阿奇就把他的病人平分 成两组人。他给其中的一半维他命C。他给另一半维他命B12。 He gives half of them vitamin C. He gives half of them
It's a system in which there are two kinds of physicians -- those who make mistakes and those who don't, 在这个制度当中,只有两种人 -- 犯错的不犯错的, those who can't handle sleep deprivation and those who can, those who have lo
And yeah, the black cloud faded a little bit, but so did all the work, because I was just floating along. 乌云似乎有点消散了,但工作也是,因为我如坠云中。 I couldn't care less if clients ever called. 我根本不在乎客户有没
So let's say for instance that you're on your way to your best friend's wedding and you're trying to get to the airport and you're stuck in terrible traffic, and you finally arrive at your gate and you've missed your flight. 比如,你在去你朋友
So let's start off by defining some terms. What is regret? 首先让我们定义一下几个词语。什么是后悔? Regret is the emotion we experience when we think that our present situation could be better or happier if we had done something d
This idea is nicely captured by this quote: Things without all remedy should be without regard; what's done is done. 有句话很好地表达了这个观点:放开无法挽回的事情;泼出去水收不回来。 And it seems like kind of an admi
And this was all actually quite shocking to me, because prior to this moment, I had prided myself on having absolutely no regrets. 这让我十分震惊,因为在那之前,我告诉自己,我绝对不会后悔的。 I made a lot of mistakes and
So that's Johnny Depp, of course. And that's Johnny Depp's shoulder. 这是强尼德普,很显然,这是他的肩膀。 And that's Johnny Depp's famous shoulder tattoo. Some of you might know that, in 1990, Depp got engaged to Winona Ryder, and h
And reaching success, I always did what I loved. 为了成功,我总是做我最喜欢的事。 But then I got into stuff that I didn't love, like management. 但不喜欢的事慢慢接踵而来,像管理。 I am the world's worst manager, but I
Why do so many people reach success and then fail? 为什么有这么多人在成功以后失败? One of the big reasons is, we think success is a one-way street. 最主要的原因之一是,我们把成功当作一条单行道。 So we do everyt
I think we need to be teaching these skills to kids and adults at every stage of their development, 我认为我们应该向所有小孩和大人都教授这些技巧, if we want to have thinking organizations and a thinking society. 如果我们想要
And yes, there was a lot of conflict and debate and argument, 当然,这其中有很多的矛盾和辩论, but that allowed everyone around the table to be creative, to solve the problem, and to change the device. 不过这使得所有人都变得有
If we aren't going to be afraid of conflict, we have to see it as thinking, and then we have to get really good at it. 如果我们不惧怕矛盾的话,我们必须把它当作思考,然后我们必须变得很擅长。 So, recently, I worked wi
So how do organizations think? Well, for the most part, they don't. 那么这些组织是怎么想的呢?其实大多数情况下,他们是不思考的。 And that isn't because they don't want to, it's really because they can't. 这不是因为他
So in other words, we know most of what we know about regret by the study of finance. But it turns out, when you look overall at what people regret in life, you know what, our financial decisions don't even rank. 换句话说,我们是通过金融研
Now within that framework, we can obviously experience regret about a lot of different things. 在这个模式下,我们显然常常后悔很多事情。 This session today is about behavioral economics. And most of what we know about regret comes
The second characteristic component of regret is a sense of bewilderment. 后悔第二波就是困惑感。 So the other thing I thought about there in my bedroom that night was, How could I have done that? What was I thinking? 那天晚上我在卧室
But I want to suggest that there's also a fifth one. 但我想说还有第五阶段。 And I think of this as a kind of existential wake-up call. 我想这是一种自我觉醒。 That night in my apartment, after I got done kicking myself and so for
It is dangerous for patients to recover from heart attacks at home. 让心脏病人在家康复是危险的。 They should be in hospital. 他们应该留在医院里。 And there's this uproar, and all the doctors start pounding the table and saying
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