TED演讲：别对我撒谎(4)

And we all kind of hate to admit it. 我们都不愿承认。 You know, we kind of wish we were better husbands, better wives, smarter, more powerful, taller, richer -- the list goes on. 我们希望自己能成为更好的丈夫，更好的妻子，变

专家称内向者更易成为好员工

Despite what many believe, extroverts are not the only office rock stars. 尽管许多人认为只有外向的人才是办公室里的明星员工，但事实并非如此。 While extroverts may be social butterflies and action-oriented, it is the qu

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This is Scientific Americans 60-Second Science. Im Cynthia Graber. This will just take a minute. If youre like me, you get a jolt of energy from socializing, and hanging out with large groups of friends, because were extroverts. But if were too socia

关于性格内向者的十大误解

I was lucky enough to discover a book called, The Introvert Advantage (How To Thrive in an Extrovert World), by Marti Laney, Psy.D. I feel like someone has written an encyclopedia entry on a rare race of people to which I belong. Not only has it expl

内向还是外向?你是哪一种?

Introvert or Extrovert. Which one are you? 内向还是外向?你是哪一种? You are invited to a large party. Loud music is playing, and lots of people are dancing. Groups of people are mingling with each other, making small talk about many differ

最成功的人都会自动做这些事

Pick Fights to test others resolve in their own beliefs. In business you cant turn over the reins to someone who doesnt know how to defend their own ideas and plans. 引起纷争来检验他人对信仰有多坚定。在企业你不能把事情交给那

内向的人如何找工作

If networking drives you nuts and you tend to think a while before you respond to interviewers' questions, you may find a job search especially difficult. Here's what to do. 如果交际让你很烦恼，回答面试官问题前，你都要有停顿的

一个人吃饭会难过吗？

Why do I feel sad when I see people eating alone? 为什么我看到有人单独吃饭的时候会觉得难过？ 获得916好评的答案@John Burgess Because you're projecting how you would feel if eating alone... sad. 因为你在设想如果你一个

如何与人聊天

Making small talk doesn't have to be painful, even if it's with a boss you want to impress or blind date you want to see alot more of! Believe it or not, making small talk can be fun - even for quiet personality types. Making small talk is also an ar

内向者能成大事！这10个好处外向者比不了！

为什么性格内向者能成大事？外媒总结的这10个好处告诉你内向从来不是你的缺点哦！ 1. We choose our words carefully so others dont have to wade through a river of bullsh** to understand what we are saying. 1.我们会想清

性格内向如何建立人际网络

Do you dread networking events? Wonder about what to say? Do you find there is something uncomfortable or possibly distasteful about the seemingly compulsory exchange of business cards? If so then you probably value sincerity and professionalism. Too

社交苦手？最适合内向者的10大高薪职业

10. Social media manager 10.社交媒体经理 Median annual pay: $45,000 平均年薪：$45,000（￥279,338） Introverts don't dislike people, they just get exhausted by constantly being around them. But since social media managers specialize in v

送给内向人的10个句子

性格内向不善交际，不愿参与社交活动却不知道如何拒绝别人？别急，今天送你10句超好用的大招，帮你解决这一烦恼。 Number 1: 大招一： Please go away. I'm introverting. 请走开，我忙着内向呢。

另一半性格内向？七招爱情保鲜建议

Most people, and I was no exception, credit numerous stereotypes about introverts. Yes, they are reserved, sometimes strange and hard to understand, but they are people as well. Moreover, dating an introverted man can have many advantages. So, what s

TED演讲：内向性格的力量(11)

And that's a lot harder for me, because as honored as I am to be here with all of you right now, this is not my natural milieu. 这不是我拿手的事情，但能站在这里向你们说话，能对在坐的各为传达我的想法，是何等荣耀的

TED演讲：内向性格的力量(9)

Now none of this is to say that social skills are unimportant, and I'm also not calling for the abolishing of teamwork at all. 我所说的完全不是指社交技能不重要，我也不是在说团队精神没有存在价值。 The same religions w

TED演讲：内向性格的力量(8)

Now if all this is true, then why are we getting it so wrong? 如果这一切都是真的，我们为何错的一塌糊涂？ Why are we setting up our schools this way, and our workplaces? 我们为何把学校跟职场架设成这样？ And why are

TED演讲：内向性格的力量(5)

Okay, same thing is true in our workplaces. 在职场上何尝不是如此。 Now, most of us work in open plan offices, without walls, where we are subject to the constant noise and gaze of our coworkers. 我们大多在开放的空间工作，没有隔

TED演讲：内向性格的力量(4)

But now here's where the bias comes in. 但是现在偏见出现了。 Our most important institutions, our schools and our workplaces, 我们最重要的机构，学校及职场， they are designed mostly for extroverts and for extroverts' need for

TED演讲：内向性格的力量(2)

But the first time that I took my book out of my suitcase, the coolest girl in the bunk came up to me and she asked me, 但是当我第一次把书从行李箱中拿出来的时候，床铺中最酷的那个女孩向我走了过来，并且她问我：