TED演讲:科技并没有改变爱 为什么?(1)

I was recently traveling in the Highlands of New Guinea, and I was talking with a man who had three wives. 最近，我正在新几内亚高地旅行，我访谈了一位有三个老婆的人。 I asked him, How many wives would you like to have? 我问

TED演讲:科技并没有改变爱 为什么?(2)

How is technology changing love? I'm going to say almost not at all. 科技改变了爱吗？我认为没有。 I study the brain. I and my colleagues have put over 100 people into a brain scanner 我从事大脑研究。我和我的同事们对100多人

TED演讲:科技并没有改变爱 为什么?(3)

There's no question that technology is changing the way we court: 可以肯定的一点是，科技正在改变人类的求爱方式： emailing, texting, emojis to express your emotions, sexting, liking a photograph, selfies. 电子邮件、短信、表

TED演讲:科技并没有改变爱 为什么?(4)

Technology is also not going to change who you choose to love. 同样科技也改变不了你的择偶对象。 I study the biology of personality, and I've come to believe that we've evolved four very broad styles of thinking and behaving, 我研究生

TED演讲:科技并没有改变爱 为什么?(6)

And so I stumbled, then, on a statistic that really came home to me. 结果我发现了一个震惊的数据。 It was a very interesting academic article in which I found that 67 percent of singles in America today who are living long-term with some

TED演讲:科技并没有改变爱 为什么?(7)

So it began to occur to me: during this long extension of the precommitment stage, 于是我突然想到：在这个长期婚前准备期， if you can get rid of bad relationships before you marry, maybe we're going to see more happy marriages. 如果

TED演讲:科技并没有改变爱 为什么?(8)

Along with this, we see a rise of a host of beliefs: 不仅如此，各种信仰开始传播： the belief of virginity at marriage, arranged marriages -- strictly arranged marriages 坚信婚前必须保持处女身，包办婚姻（严格安排的婚

TED演讲:科技并没有改变爱 为什么?(9)

Thank you so much for that, Helen. As you know, there's another speaker here with us that works in your same field. 感谢您的演讲，海伦。今天还有另一位演讲者，她和您在相同的领域里做研究。 She comes at it from a diffe

TED演讲:科技并没有改变爱 为什么?(10)

So we've created what I call this thing of stable ambiguity. 这种现象我称为稳定的模棱两可。 Stable ambiguity is when you are too afraid to be alone but also not really willing to engage in intimacy-building. 它指的是你害怕被剩下

TED演讲:科技并没有改变爱 为什么?(11)

Well, I've got three points here, right? 好的，我分为三点来说。 First of all, to your first one: there's no question that we've changed, 首先，回答你第一个问题：人类变了，这一点毋庸置疑， that we now want a person

TED演讲:科技并没有改变爱 为什么?(12)

We did it in the larger culture, and we're doing it in marriage. 在其他文化中我们已经这么做了，现在我们把它带到婚姻中。 Right, no question about it. But it's interesting, the millennials actually want to be very good parent

TED演讲:一项关于电动车的大胆计划(1)

So how would you run a whole country without oil? 怎么让一个国家在没有用石油的情况下运转？ That's the question that sort of hit me in the middle of a Davos afternoon about four years ago. 四年以前在Davos的一个下午，这个

TED演讲:一项关于电动车的大胆计划(2)

So we're bound with the laws of physics and the laws of economics. 所以我们需要遵循物理原理以及经济原理。 And so the thought that I started with was how do you do this, still within the boundary of the science we know today 于是我

TED演讲:一项关于电动车的大胆计划(4)

You, today, buy gasoline miles. And we created electric miles. 现在大家买的是汽油里程。我们就创造电子里程。 And the price of electric miles ends up being a very interesting number. 电子里程价钱加起来是个有趣的数字。

TED演讲:一项关于电动车的大胆计划(5)

Now this would have been a wonderful paper. 这本来是一篇极好的文章。 That's how I solved it in my head. 这便是我解决这个问题的过程。 It was a white paper I handed out to governments. 我把这分白皮书分发给不同的政府

TED演讲:一项关于电动车的大胆计划(6)

And I had to quit and come and do this thing called A Better Place. 我于是退出了SAP的CEO的竞选，开始了这个名为更美好的地方的方案。 Now we then decided to scale it up. We went to other countries. 然后我们决定把这个方

TED演讲:一项关于电动车的大胆计划(7)

And the second one was the San Francisco Bay Area where Gavin Newsom created a beautiful policy across all the mayors. 第二个地方便是旧金山市湾区。在所有的市长当中，Gavin Newsom精心设计了一个政策方案。 He decided th

TED演讲:一项关于电动车的大胆计划(8)

And that's the difference between problems that are additive, like CO2, 这个就是可添加性问题，像二氧化碳问题， which we go slowly up and then we tip, and problems that are depletive, in which we lose what we have, which oscillate, 慢

TED演讲:一项关于电动车的大胆计划(9)

Now where is the car industry on that? Very interesting. 汽车工业在这个问题上的位置究竟在哪？这非常有意思。 The car industry has been focused just on themselves. 汽车工业一直都只专注在它们自己身上。 They bas

TED演讲:一项关于电动车的大胆计划(10)

One car emits four tons. And actually 700 and change million cars today emit 2.8 billion tons of CO2. 一辆汽车排放4吨二氧化碳。现在的7亿辆汽车排放28亿吨二氧化碳。 That's, in the additive, about 25 percent of our problem. 那