I'm going to tell you a little bit about my TEDxHouston Talk. 我要跟大家讲一点关于我TEDxHouston演讲的事。 I woke up the morning after I gave that talk with the worst vulnerability hangover of my life. 在演讲之后的那个早上,是
No, it is. You know why this place is amazing? 不,它就是。为什么这地方很神奇? Because very few people here are afraid to fail. 因为这里几乎没有人 是害怕失败的。 And no one who gets on the stage, so far that I've seen
What do you do? Well, there are steps we can take to navigate our way through the morass. 怎么办呢?有几个步骤可以指导我们走出迷雾。 Trained liespotters get to the truth 90 percent of the time. 受过识谎训练的人能认识到
We're hardwired to become leaders of the pack. 我们天生就喜欢做领导。 It's starts really, really early. How early? 这从很早很早就开始了。多早? Well babies will fake a cry, pause, wait to see who's coming and then go right ba
Lying's complex. It's woven into the fabric of our daily and our business lives. 说谎这事挺复杂的。这跟我们的日常生活与工作交织在一起。 We're deeply ambivalent about the truth. 我们对真相总是拿捏不准。 We parse
And we all kind of hate to admit it. 我们都不愿承认。 You know, we kind of wish we were better husbands, better wives, smarter, more powerful, taller, richer -- the list goes on. 我们希望自己能成为更好的丈夫,更好的妻子,变
But there are times when we are unwilling participants in deception. 而有时候我们不愿意参与说谎。 And that can have dramatic costs for us. 而这时,我们可能会遭受重大损失。 Last year saw 997 billion dollars in corporate f
So before I get started, what I'm going to do is I'm going to clarify my goal for you, which is not to teach a game of Gotcha. 切入主题之前,我先澄清一下,我演讲的目的不是叫你们玩测谎游戏。 Liespotters aren't those nitp
Okay, now I don't want to alarm anybody in this room, but it's just come to my attention that the person to your right is a liar. 我不想吓唬你们,但是我发现坐在你右边的那个人是个骗子。 Also, the person to your left is a lia
Well it did. But it turns out, it doesn't remind me of the thing I thought it would; it reminds me constantly of something else instead. 不过确实是只是让我想起的不是我当初希望的;而常常是其他东西,它常常让我想起。
The third way that I think we can help make our peace with regret is through the passage of time, which, as we know, heals all wounds-except for tattoos, which are permanent. 第三点我想就是通过时间的流逝来慢慢平和地面对遗憾,我
So how are we supposed to live with this? 那我们怎么才能面对悔恨? I want to suggest that there's three things that help us to make our peace with regret. 我想提三点建议来让我们平和地面对后悔。 And the first of these is
Now, in fact, they couldn't do it for a lot of reasons today. 现在,事实上,由于一些原因,他们不能做到这一点。 One of the reasons is a lot of their telephones use IP protocol and use things like Skype and so on that go through
But people won't decide to do it until they recognize the need for it, and that's the problem that we have right now. 但是直到人民意识到真正的需要,才会决定去做,这就是现在的问题所在。 So there's been plenty of people
And the problem with it is, I think we are setting ourselves up for a kind of disaster like the disaster we had in the financial system, 而问题在于,我认为,我们正在将我们自己置于类似于金融风暴那样的灾难之上, wher
热情是一种对人,事,物和信仰的强烈情感。当一个人在充满热情的时候,几乎会调动体内所有的能量。今天我们来听听著名音乐家,马友友对于热情的描述。他对于音乐的热情,可以说已经
今天我们来学习一个俚语 sacred cow。直译过来是神圣的牛。这个短语,和印度人崇拜牛有很大关系。 印度是一个多宗教的国度,其中,印度教占主导地位,印度教徒的数量达到人口总数的80%,
So, this book that I have in my hand is a directory of everybody who had an email address in 1982. 呃,我手里的这本书是1982年所有拥有电邮地址的人的通讯录。 Actually, it's deceptively large. 它看起来很大,其实不然。
In fact, it was so successful that there's no way that these days you could make a book like this. 实际上,互联网如此成功,以至于如今你不可能出版这样一本通讯录了。 My rough calculation is it would be about 25 miles thi
So we've built this system where we understand all the parts of it, 所以我们建造了这个系统,我们虽然了解这个系统的所有部分, but we're using it in a very, very different way than we expected to use it, 但是我们以一种不
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