TED演讲:选择的困惑(6)

We all know what's good about it, so I'm going to talk about what's bad about it. 我们都知道它的好处。那么就让我来说说它的不好之处吧。 All of this choice has two effects, two negative effects on people. 所有这些选择对人

TED演讲:选择的困惑(7)

You really want to get the decision right if it's for all eternity, right? 当你进入极乐世界时，你一定希望你做出的决定是正确的，是吗？ You don't want to pick the wrong mutual fund, or the wrong salad dressing. So that's on

TED演讲:选择的困惑(8)

But here's what you're supposed to be thinking. Here's this couple on the Hamptons. 但这是你此时此刻应该想的事。看看汉普顿的这两口子。 Very expensive real estate. Gorgeous beach. Beautiful day. They have it all to themselves.

TED演讲:选择的困惑(9)

He had no idea what that was, so I spent an hour trying on all these damn jeans, 他一头雾水，结果我花了一个钟头试穿了所有这些该死的牛仔裤， and I walked out of the store -- truth! -- with the best-fitting jeans I had ever

TED演讲:选择的困惑(11)

Now, as a policy matter -- I'm almost done -- as a policy matter, the thing to think about is this: 我快说完了。现在说说一个政策问题，我们该想想的一个政策问题是， what enables all of this choice in industrial societies

TED演讲:成功的钥匙?毅力(1)

When I was 27 years old, I left a very demanding job in management consulting for a job that was even more demanding: teaching. 在我27岁的时候，我辞去了一份非常有挑战性的职业，企业管理咨询，转而投入了一份更加具有

TED演讲:成功的钥匙?毅力(2)

After several more years of teaching, I came to the conclusion that what we need in education 经过几年教学之后，我得出一个结论，我们在教育方面所需要的是 is a much better understanding of students and learning from a motiv

TED演讲:成功的钥匙?毅力(3)

Grit is passion and perseverance for very long-term goals. Grit is having stamina. 毅力是对长远目标的激情和坚持。毅力是拥有持久的恒劲。 Grit is sticking with your future, day in, day out, not just for the week, not just for

TED演讲:成功的钥匙?毅力(4)

So far, the best idea I've heard about building grit in kids is something called growth mindset. 到目前为止，我所听说过的在孩子身上培养坚韧品质最有效的方法叫成长型思维模式。 This is an idea developed at Stanford

TED演讲:恋爱中的大脑(1)

I and my colleagues Art Aron and Lucy Brown and others, 我和阿尔特阿伦、露西布朗还有其他同事 have put 37 people who are madly in love 对37位处在恋爱不同阶段的人的大脑 into a functional MRI brain scanner. 进行了核磁

TED演讲:恋爱中的大脑(2)

We found activity in a tiny, little factory near the base of the brain 我们发现在大脑底部附近有一块活跃的微小的区域 called the ventral tegmental area. 腹侧背盖区。 We found activity in some cells called the A10 cells, 其中

TED演讲:人类性进化的启示(2)

All Cacilda and I have done is extend this sharing behavior to sexuality. 我和卡希尔达只是将这种分享行为扩展到了性上 So we've argued that human sexuality 我们认为人类的性 has essentially evolved, until agriculture, 直到农

TED演讲:人类性进化的启示(3)

I'm sorry. It's true. 我很抱歉，不过这是事实 The human, some of you will be happy to hear, 你们有些人可能比较喜欢听到这个 has the largest, thickest penis of any primate. 人类有灵长类中最大最厚的阴茎 Now, this e

TED演讲:人类性进化的启示(4)

It's time we moved beyond Mars and Venus, 男人来自火星，女人来自金星的时代已经过去 because the truth is that men are from Africa 现在所有人都知道真相，男人来自非洲 and women are from Africa. 女人也来自非洲

TED演讲:互联网怎样使人们变得亲密(1)

I believe that there are new, hidden tensions 我相信，有新的，隐藏的紧张关系 that are actually happening between people and institutions -- 发生在人们与制度之间， institutions that are the institutions that people 在人们日

TED演讲:互联网怎样使人们变得亲密(2)

So, think of the three settings I've talked to you about: 那么想想这3个我所谈到的背景： factory, migration, office. 工厂，移民，办公室。 But it could be in a school, it could be an administration, 但这也可能在学校，在政

TED演讲:漫谈时光流逝(1)

You all know this story. 你们都知道这个故事. In the summer of 1950, 在1950年的夏天, Enrico Fermi, the Italian-American physicist Enrico Fermi, 美籍意大利心理学家 and atomic-pile builder, 和原子堆创造者 went to lunch at L

TED演讲:漫谈时光流逝(3)

Encounter one: Ocean City, New Jersey, 1980. 遭遇一: 1980年,新泽西的欧欣城. This was the summer when the special edition of 那是个夏天,正好赶上《第三类接触》的 Close Encounters of the Third Kind was released. 特别版发布

TED演讲:漫谈时光流逝(4)

Close encounter three: Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, 遭遇三:宾夕法尼亚州的费城, 1989. 1989年 In the mid-to-late '80s, 八十世纪末, the novelist Whitley Strieber wrote a book called Communion, 小说家Whitley Strieber写了本自传, i

TED演讲:漫谈时光流逝(5)

Close encounter four: the Algarve, 遭遇四:阿尔加瓦 Portugal, 1991. 葡萄牙,1991. Some years later, I and this woman -- 许多年过后,我和这个女人-- we'll call her Catherine Fletcher -- 我们将称她为Catherine Fletcher- went trave