访谈录 2010-10-01&10-03 老男人的性爱观

There're certain questions that only a man can answer. So we called in our resident 1 man, So he does the best he could.

A nice guy, only one we have to accept for a while never. Donny Deutsh is here to share…Professor Orrin Cory is not available, so here I am. Exactly, our Pee Wee Herman, so we invited Donny, And we call this 'the other view'.

Yes, we do.

We know the view you like. you know, we never kind of …I used to wanna say that I, it means a lot to me, you guys invite me here, all right, I can come and bond 2 with you guys and share.

You're throwing a very expensive party for Hoda's book, very graceful 3!

A party will be at my home, it’s open to the public by the way, so we'll be posting the address.

In truth, we started throwing it together, it got so huge, I said you know I really think this is really Donny's party.

Thank you. Thank you very much.

All right, we’ve people wanna ask you important questions, Sara, what do we have? You’re welcome, Hoda. Pamela, “I think my sex life is good, but always have to be an initiator, should I be worried?”

If she is always initiator, May be.

No, on the one side, you know sometimes people play roles. Sometimes people are more aggressive than other ones. You should tell him, hey you know what, I wanna feel wanted, please I need you once in a while kinda come after me. And if he doesn't respond to that, there are two problems obviously 4, he is having some attraction issues, and he's also not concerned about your feelings, so you could do very simple test, tell him how you feel. Not great sound, may not be problem, his attitude may be “Hey, I want sexual 5 time, so I just wait to when you want it”, but do it that way, just say Hey, I like what you come after me, that's it. OK, all rightOK, Lori wants to know she's dating a guy for two months, first one since she got a divorce 6. When is the right time to introduce him to the kids.

Great question, this is relevant 7 in my life. You introduce several couple a month.

You know what, But I'm... Ladies and gentlemenAll right, go ahead.

No, that's actually a very serious question. My belief is particularly there is active mom and dad knot 8 together, nobody is coming to replace him. Kids are resilient, as long as you say it, you know what, this is not gonna be mummies, not gonna be daddies. This somebody that we're going on to date with, and don't set up a new family structure. Kids get it. Kids, you know, I've dated different women since I've been single, my kids, my kids are great.They understand something.

Do you always introduce… Not always, I'd wait a while, and it's OK, they are not…you don’t all of a sudden put them in mummy role or daddy, so they never…Nobody can ever substitute 9 for their mother. Just like when my children's mom starts dating men, they're not gonna be daddy, it's mom's boyfriend or a date. So they're not in therapy 10 yet?

They are not, my kids are very healthy guy, they…my kids are great. OK. One more.

Maryann wants to know, she's about to go on a fifth date with a guy she's been seeing. She knows he's ready to sleep with her but she doesn't want it to be too soon, or him to think she is easy.

You can never wait too long. Guys want to wait. If you really like a woman, you want to wait. And if he…make it ten dates, 11 dates, 12 dates, he will wait. do it when you're ready.

What’s the longest you’ve ever waited?

I waited a month. Wow. All right, Join us tomorrow, Bye-bye everybody.