时间:2019-02-02 作者:英语课 分类:访谈录


英语课
Helen Fisher is an anthropology 1 professor at Rutgers University and the author of Why We Love and Dave Zinczenko is the Editor in Chief of Men's Health magazine and author of the new book Men, Love and Sex, the complete user's guide for a woman. Good morning to both of you.

Yes we should both be here.
both very interesting

Yes.

With a woman and a man and it's after all an important topic.

You are both very interesting. Actually, I didn't realize Helen, the history of the art of kissing, it really goes, it predates men.
It does. Chimpanzees kiss. They kiss with the deep French kiss. Um, we know that because they've come up to anthropologists and actually done it. (In other words, we know chimpanzees kiss because they've actually kissed anthropologists.) But, moles 2 rub noses or dogs lick each other in the face er...

Well, what does it mean?

It means very different things to different people at different times, of course, but a huge amount of the brain becomes activated 3 when you kiss somebody. And all of the senses are involved, I mean, and so you pick up an enormous amount of information about somebody and send a lot of information about your intentions, er, about how interested you are in the other person. And of course, what you've eaten and drank and, and smoked...

Yes.

Right.

And, and I think , it's a, it's a fundamental human , you know, gesture and all those nerve endings are there for a reason and to Helen's point and it is the ultimate chemistry experiment for a couple, I mean, it signifies everything. Are we gonna create a brand new invention here or a miserable 4 explosion. And it's also like a mark of solidarity 5 in a relationship because what it does is it says, you know, we kiss each other because only we can and it signifies the unique position that we hold in each other's lives and that's why it's so awful to see your partner kissing someone else.

Oh, right.

You know, but it's also interesting. You talked about relationships where basically there's not enough kissing going on without then, going on to sex.

Right, kissing along can be great to reduce stress and all of that, (Sure.) how important is it in a relationship?

I think it's extremely, oh, different relationships are gonna be different, but apparently 6 people who kiss more regularly are also more intimate, feel more intimate towards each other and the kissing can actually trigger the brain system for romantic love or for deep attachment 7 or even for a forgiveness or trust.

I, I don't think you have to kiss everyday. It's not like taking a multivitamin, (I do) but I think, regular-make-out sessions say that there's more to the relationship than just SEX. And that, and that you can still get turned on like a couple of (yeah, just like kids ) high school kids in a dark corner of the gymnasium.

But men and women, look at kissing a little differently, don't they? Dave, for women, it's, it's everything.

Yeah. Oh, I think for a woman, it's pri a lot more sensual. Some guys, to their peril 8, they, they, they see it as a stop, a local stop on a train going to a much more interesting (Exactly) place.

And what they don't realize is women are the conductors on that train.(women gonna get there when they kiss one) And if you don't have the right ticket, you are off at the next stop.

But let's help men out of it, let's help men a little bit here, how do you actually, this can be such torment 9 for men. How do you know when a woman is ready to be kissed? Look, I mean.

She puts herself out there, I mean, women are very subtle and very good at that, she just gets herself within your intimate space, she smiles at you and she'll lean towards you and splaying, and then ... You know, men regard sex as more intimate than women do, I mean, women take the kissing, kissing for women is very sensual, I mean they get a better sense of smell, taste, hearing, and...

Then why a man sees it as more intimate?

Er, they, they, women may feel it a little bit more intensely, but I think men put a lot of meaning on it.

When, you know, we, in the break room we were talking about when it's appropriate to kiss someone and it is in what situations? You go to a party, you meet someone for the first time. OK to kiss them goodnight? I mean, even it's just on the cheek?

Look, I think if it's before 5 p.m. and you're in any kind of office setting, you know, no kissing, after that, you're on their own, you're on your own. If it's two guys and it's something like, and it's a social setting, a lot of guys are kind of doing that, I think, I think the hug, hugging it out is, is a good way to go. I mean, when Michael Corleone, you know, kissed Fraydo, (right) it did not end well.

Yes, that's right.

I know, I'm not a big fan of it, you know.

Went at all, do no kiss.

Helen Fisher and Dave Zinczenko , thank-you to both of you. Is it appropriate for you two to kiss at this point? You've been working together for a while.

Well, if we do it, right, we will be employing 34 facial muscles. So um... Well, the answer, it's like to call the French kiss, so, so no whimpering out.


n.人类学
  • I believe he has started reading up anthropology.我相信他已开始深入研究人类学。
  • Social anthropology is centrally concerned with the diversity of culture.社会人类学主要关于文化多样性。
防波堤( mole的名词复数 ); 鼹鼠; 痣; 间谍
  • Unsightly moles can be removed surgically. 不雅观的痣可以手术去除。
  • Two moles of epoxy react with one mole of A-1100. 两个克分子环氧与一个克分子A-1100反应。
adj.悲惨的,痛苦的;可怜的,糟糕的
  • It was miserable of you to make fun of him.你取笑他,这是可耻的。
  • Her past life was miserable.她过去的生活很苦。
n.团结;休戚相关
  • They must preserve their solidarity.他们必须维护他们的团结。
  • The solidarity among China's various nationalities is as firm as a rock.中国各族人民之间的团结坚如磐石。
adv.显然地;表面上,似乎
  • An apparently blind alley leads suddenly into an open space.山穷水尽,豁然开朗。
  • He was apparently much surprised at the news.他对那个消息显然感到十分惊异。
n.附属物,附件;依恋;依附
  • She has a great attachment to her sister.她十分依恋她的姐姐。
  • She's on attachment to the Ministry of Defense.她现在隶属于国防部。
n.(严重的)危险;危险的事物
  • The refugees were in peril of death from hunger.难民有饿死的危险。
  • The embankment is in great peril.河堤岌岌可危。
n.折磨;令人痛苦的东西(人);vt.折磨;纠缠
  • He has never suffered the torment of rejection.他从未经受过遭人拒绝的痛苦。
  • Now nothing aggravates me more than when people torment each other.没有什么东西比人们的互相折磨更使我愤怒。
学英语单词
abnormal phoneme
aestuum
alternative carriage
anal operculum
antiarachnolysin
backstair
banana kicks
barenboim
be under review
BISCS
bow mechanism
bursae iliopectinea
Chladni
chromium tungstate
compound oil
concentrated evaporator
conical gauge
conpsoromic acid
convergence region
countryish
debit credit mechanism
delayed time-base sweep
disarmings
discredits
distinctiveness ratio
electropositive
erewhile (s)
extended field
filament blend yarn
Flumezin
foreappoint
forest goats
formation signal
frontal-contour chart
Gaius Julius Caesar
Galton's delta
gastrique
generalife
Gentianopsis holopetala
get ... on
gnathoscope
Guy's pill
Huschke's valves
hyperegy
integrated tug-barge
it feels like
kalioun
karagandas
Kievites
KING (Kinetic Intense Neutron Generator)
layman management
line control word
lobotess
lobularities
luci
magnesium carbonate
Makhāmīr, Jab.al
microwave dryer
mimoplocia notata
MIRAPINNIDAE
modern drama
nandrolone phenylpropionate
nonimplant
Olovyannaya
one quadrant convertor
optical parallelism
overhead
p-hydroxyphenylpyruvic acid
pendler
PHLA
placida dendritica
predicator
production engine
provisional acceptance
purophobia
requisite book
reverse-commutes
rule with an iron fist
Sikkim holly
siliceous geyserite
solid error
solid lubricant
solubility parameter
spermatozoon (pl. spermatozoa)
spray chemical
stationary tangent
Stenshuvud
subdivision rules
taxation theories and principles
the Demerara
thinkos
tidal zone biology
timber drying
tropical air mass
true income
undilating
US Coast Guard
Wii Sports
wolf jaw
xterra
yard craft