时间:2018-12-18 作者:英语课 分类:生活英语听力文章


英语课

 Start with your spouse 1, your children, or another family member. 就从你的配偶,子女或其他家庭成员开始吧,


Ask them for their honesty. And when they do offer to tell you, don’t get defensive 2. 让他们实话实说。当他们准备好对你说大实话的时候,你就不要再把自己“保护”起来了。
When you’re ready, ask a trusted colleague, supervisor 3, or someone who reports to you. 当你准备好了,就问一个可靠的同事,上司或下属。
It takes courage, but I guarantee they’ll respect you for asking, especially when they see you making an effort to change. 这是要勇气的,但我相信他们会尊重你的问话,尤其是当他们看到你在努力改变自己的时候。
If you just can’t bring yourself to ask anyone outright 4, here are ways to figure it out yourself. 如果你完全不敢问别人,下面这些方法可以让你自助。
First,make a conscious effort to watch how others are viewing your actions and reactions. 首先,自觉努力地看别人是如何看待你的行动并作出了怎样的反应。
Notice when others seem to be turned off by something you say or do. 留意一下别人是否因为你的所说所为而退避三舍。
Take time to think about what you can start doing to be more considerate of others. 花点时间想想你能做些什么来更好地为别人着想。
Today, rather than post what bugs 5 you, I’m asking you to leave a comment about a habit of yours that you want to seriously eliminate. Simple answer this question. 今天,我要你留下你最想摆脱的坏习惯而不是那些烦扰你的事。简单回答这个问题。
If I ask my spouse, boss, coworker or closest friend the one thing I do that really bugs them, what would they say. 如果我问我的另一半、老板、同事,或者最好的朋友,我最让他们烦的地方是什么,他们会怎样回答。

1 spouse
n.配偶(指夫或妻)
  • Her spouse will come to see her on Sunday.她的丈夫星期天要来看她。
  • What is the best way to keep your spouse happy in the marriage?在婚姻中保持配偶幸福的最好方法是什么?
2 defensive
adj.防御的;防卫的;防守的
  • Their questions about the money put her on the defensive.他们问到钱的问题,使她警觉起来。
  • The Government hastily organized defensive measures against the raids.政府急忙布置了防卫措施抵御空袭。
3 supervisor
n.监督人,管理人,检查员,督学,主管,导师
  • Between you and me I think that new supervisor is a twit.我们私下说,我认为新来的主管人是一个傻瓜。
  • He said I was too flighty to be a good supervisor.他说我太轻浮不能成为一名好的管理员。
4 outright
adv.坦率地;彻底地;立即;adj.无疑的;彻底的
  • If you have a complaint you should tell me outright.如果你有不满意的事,你应该直率地对我说。
  • You should persuade her to marry you outright.你应该彻底劝服她嫁给你。
5 bugs
adj.疯狂的,发疯的n.窃听器( bug的名词复数 );病菌;虫子;[计算机](制作软件程序所产生的意料不到的)错误
  • All programs have bugs and need endless refinement. 所有的程序都有漏洞,都需要不断改进。 来自《简明英汉词典》
  • The sacks of rice were swarming with bugs. 一袋袋的米里长满了虫子。 来自《简明英汉词典》
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学英语单词
ace it
Acer leiopodum
affiliated society
American hop
analysts
Androsace zayulensis
annuler
antennal neuron
Archibald prize
bacterial membrane
besport
blocking relay
body-ring
broken circle
c-type
caprimulgidaes
Carya tomentosa
cattle actinomycosis
cavum hyaloideum
chloroacrolein
chorea syndrome
chronic hepatic encephalopathy
cmyc
codebook coding
concave grating spectrometer
condylar fracture
cupro fibre
curvature vorticity
De Sauty's method
deflocculator
Dorila
dye-dilution
ecobuoy
edge-defined film-fed growth
Emissy
endoecism
ethyl sulfonamide
extraneous nonterminal
flank on
flat deck poultry cage
foliated talc
gulancha
Heilong
hexyne
hollow flint glass
honeworts
Huatong
hydroxyskatol
ingratiate hiself with
job vacancy
Kordofan
Kotoko
local shear
localized
lone signal unit
lonithermies
lump-sum pension
macrophoma magnoliae
marcerized cotton
mid-months
Modal fibre
monoclinic pyroxene
mound-birds
neuro-patterns
off one's game
oncoapoptosis
one flew over the cuckoo's nest
oxygen resuscitator
pack tilting device
Palairos
pancreaticjejunostomy
pelvimetry
poitrel
predrag
price fixing agreement
pumpkin vines
quench-fire
scalping screen
security operations
selection examination
sequesterer
short-driven bolt
sister species
skyscraper sheaf
SMSI
solid-state scintillation counter
spermatozoicide
split fractions
stack tree
stopper ladle
subdivision rules
subscleral
system source
teaming up
transfix
turn something over to somebody
undecidable ring
wavy water surface
whale-watch
whaps
yamanashi
zone letter