访谈录 2010-06-06&06-10 解读剩女现象-10

“I think that what black me a looking forward is different kind of successful. Lot of times, you may think the successful means 1 how much money you make, or that you have a nice job, that you CEO in this company, but black me a looking for a woman a successful that no one have love a man that means that she is so successful that she may meet a man and when she meets his hero cant 2 time loving him she’s turn the man superman 3”

“It’s funny because you say we have to make you feel like a superman, if we made you like a superman, is there anything that you cause superman take a lot of work.”

“Michelle you absolutely right any women that knows when she makes a man superman that we gonna make you wonder woman.”

“We are wonder woman cause we make you superman.”

“that’s another point, but what we are saying you understand a physiology 4 of man, we want more power, we want more stress, we want more influence, and we want a woman that can be an asserts 5 to us.”

“So I am a single man, she was not comfortable with my success”

“One problem that I find myself, in a few friends of mine is their aor pushed away because I am a single mother, you just to sue 6 that I have a baby, ok, I know your name, you got a child”

“I have a baby and I married a woman with a child. I love the child, but you mean accept you and your children, chose again, please. because they are strong man that they will take you and your child, cause your child needs a man like”

“I’m not totally agree, so even get relationship, so even get together, so even get married?”

“We got get there.”

“I mean I think”

“I want to say to the lady on thewhy can’t a successful black woman find a successful man, she never will, a successful lady will find a gentleman. Michelle Obama was a lady yet she had a gentleman, I think you gonna have a problem looking for boys, at the end of the day,you don’t want a man, you don’t want a boy, you want a gentleman, you became a gentleman ,if you want ask why would you want a girl? I’m just saying, I ‘m 40 year old man, I want a lady”

“want apologize all the women in here,”

“We hear you, we hear you what you’re saying, eh, I mean I hear you, but I don’t understand you calling us girl.”

“young profession, I’ve been, you know a lot of places, and talking about black women, you know we discuss the issue 7 that raise the statistics 8, but I don’t think they know the statistics. so although everyone is here, and everyone watch this we concerned about this issue, how do you get this issue out? ”

“It’s despite a lot man have, we think that without partner, we can get some place get to”

“be honest man”

“marriage, because aren’t very vocal 9 that marriage, and single brotherwhy this make them a better man, and man ,I guess ,is not cool but happy don’t say I am happy, they don’t do it,and so they need more vocal about that ”

“I guess that was my question there. because there still why can’t a successful woman find a man rather than, you know, the issue because black man and woman relationships”

“you exactly what I said”

“I know that’s exactly what I may be ”

Thank you very much“how long”

“this is a life journey, you know perfect this ”