时间:2019-01-18 作者:英语课 分类:生活英语听力文章


英语课

 These two examples may seem obvious, but remember that compliments come in many forms. 这两个例子似乎是显而易见的,但是你要知道恭维可以是很多方式。


Whatever the situation, there is a proper way to acknowledge praise, commendation, or admiration 1. 无论是什么状况,有一种合适的方式来承认表扬、赞美和羡慕。
Make eye contact. Acknowledging a compliment is a perfect time to connect with someone. 眼神交流。承认是恭维时,这是最好的时机和别人交流。
Look the person in the eye when you respond. Doing so communicates sincerity 2 and self-confidence. 当他做出反应时,看着他的眼睛。真诚和自信的沟通。
Say, “Thank you.” A sincere, unhurried ‘thank you’ along with a smile and eye contact is more often than not all that is necessary. 说,"谢谢你。"时,不仅是一个真诚的从容不迫的"谢谢你",面带微笑和眼神交流都是必要的。
Don’t explain anything. If you feel moved, you can follow your ‘thank you’ with something positive. 不要做任何解释。如果你被感动到了,你要跟随着你的内心去做一些积极向上的事。
Doing so communicates desirable character traits such as friendliness 3 and positivity. 这样的交流有友善和积极的特征。
Caution: If you can’t keep it brief and will be tempted 4 to explain or rationalize your action or accomplishment 5, leave it at a simple ‘thank you.’ 警告:如果你不能保持简单的解释或理顺你的行动和成就,就留下简单的一句话“谢谢你。”
Here’s how it might sound if Mary and Bill put this advice into practice: 如果迈瑞和比尔把建议付诸行动,听起来会是这样的:
“Have you lost weight, Mary? You look terrific!” “你在减肥吗?迈瑞,你看起来很好!”
Thanks, Barb 6. I feel great, too. 谢谢,巴布,我也感觉很好。
“I’m really happy with the way you handled yourself on that call, Bill.” “比尔,我对你这样的做法很满意。”
Thank you, Jim. I appreciate the feedback. 谢谢你,吉姆。我对你的回答表示赞美。
Quite a difference, wouldn’t you say? My challenge for you today is three-fold: 完全不同的效果,你会说吗?我对你的挑战是这三个:
1. Listen for compliments given to others as you go about your business over the next week. 1.你下周做你自己的事时,去听别人的赞美。
How many times do you hear people rejecting or ignoring a compliment they receive? 你听到多少次人们的对赞美的拒绝或者是当收到赞美时不去理会?
2. Give more compliments than you normally would. Notice the responses people give. 2.给别人的赞美远远超过自己,注意一下别人会给你怎样的回复。
3. Finally, put today’s advice into practice the very next time you receive a compliment. 3.最后,把今天的建议付诸到适当的时间,你会收到赞美的。
And remember,acknowledging a compliment paid is a simple, yet very effective way to make a positive impression and build a favorable reputation. 承认赞美是一种简单的支付,这是一种有效的途径给人留下美好的印象并建立一个好的声望。

n.钦佩,赞美,羡慕
  • He was lost in admiration of the beauty of the scene.他对风景之美赞不绝口。
  • We have a great admiration for the gold medalists.我们对金牌获得者极为敬佩。
n.真诚,诚意;真实
  • His sincerity added much more authority to the story.他的真诚更增加了故事的说服力。
  • He tried hard to satisfy me of his sincerity.他竭力让我了解他的诚意。
n.友谊,亲切,亲密
  • Behind the mask of friendliness,I know he really dislikes me.在友善的面具后面,我知道他其实并不喜欢我。
  • His manner was a blend of friendliness and respect.他的态度友善且毕恭毕敬。
v.怂恿(某人)干不正当的事;冒…的险(tempt的过去分词)
  • I was sorely tempted to complain, but I didn't. 我极想发牢骚,但还是没开口。
  • I was tempted by the dessert menu. 甜食菜单馋得我垂涎欲滴。
n.完成,成就,(pl.)造诣,技能
  • The series of paintings is quite an accomplishment.这一系列的绘画真是了不起的成就。
  • Money will be crucial to the accomplishment of our objectives.要实现我们的目标,钱是至关重要的。
n.(鱼钩等的)倒钩,倒刺
  • The barb of his wit made us wince.他那锋芒毕露的机智使我们退避三舍。
  • A fish hook has a barb to prevent the fish from escaping after being hooked.鱼钩上都有一个倒钩以防上了钩的鱼逃走。
标签: 生活英语
学英语单词
3-methylchromone
accriminated
acetonyl acetone
acid detergent fiber
acoustic effects mixer
activity meter
Adam
adder's tongue fern
aegisthus spinulosus
Alahanpanjang
ammaccapane
animal toxins
anticonservative
antiequivalent
Antistaphyoloysin
aquaemanalia
aquatic fungi
area health authority
armature contact spring
auto spectrum
Bals
be crook on
ben-gay
big moneys
blow upon
board width
borrowing limit
Chalmettians
closing time of a make contact
coil paper
compressed pattern storage
compressive strength after immersion
constrainingly
corynespora sesamum (sacc) goto
coulombically
court of appeal
crew systems
crystal growth by sintering
cutter arm
dove-tailing
eh-ph equation
enzyme engineering
expert in
fill one's shoes
fnn
Fricke's bandage
Fundamental Laws
gated pattern
genus Aetobatus
get ... to do
glossogobius celebius
Godunov
hairy round the heel
hardware reliability
i.a.c.s.
Jamberoo
linear sensor
lined shoe
low pressure steam line
mattison
messi
microdyne scrubber
multiple damper
neighboring note
neurology department
normal velocity
nostoc commune
overwasted
Peissen
pick - up truck
plasmal
pole edge
pressure-temperature saturating curve P-T
pure nitrogen liquefier
rag cutter
reverse slow motion
round the corner
rumbustiousness
sack piler
screw driver with iron handle
shock dynamics
Sinp'o-si
spatial pattem
spectatorially
sperm-banks
spill-over
surprise witness
tiltoramas
toyson
Trosna
unhinderably
unlevied
up-draw process
vagina mucosa intertubercularis
varisymbol
warping knitting machine
wash one's hands in invisible soap
went on at
whisk broom
wightmen
windhausen
zirconium alloy