爱她的25种方式

 　　Misunderstandings are the biggest problem in most relationships. Sometimes it can be solved easily, you just don’t know what it is exactly. It could be that she doesn’t feel loved. When you love someone, you can easily take it for granted 1. But love is not something to think lightly about. It’s one of the most important things in life, because every other aspect is touched by it.

　　误会是感情中最大的问题。有时候很容易就解决了，你只是不知道准确的原因。有可能是她感觉不到你爱她。当你爱一个人的时候，很容易认为那是理所应当的。但是爱不是能轻易思考的东西。它是生命中最重要的事情之一,因为其他的每一个方面都是被触动的。
　　But how do you show it? It may not come easy to everyone. Appreciating a person can be done in many ways. So I will help you on your way. Here are 25 ways to show her you really do love her!
　　但你要怎么表现呢？也许每个人都不容易。在很多方面是可以做到的欣赏一个人。所以我会给你一些帮助。这里有25种方法给她你真的爱她1.Talk respectfully 2. Don’t make her feel like she is less important.
　　恭敬地交谈。不要让她觉得她是那么重要。
　　2. Listen to her. Not just to the words she’s saying but to the feeling she tries to express.
　　听她的。不仅她说的话,但她试图表达的感觉。
　　3. Compliment 3 her. Be specific 4, so she knows you really mean it.
　　赞美她。具体点,这样她就知道你是真心的。
　　4. Try to show interest in things she enjoys. Does she like cooking? Help her! Does she like sports? Play it with her! Does she like art? Watch it with her!
　　试着对她喜欢的东西表现出兴趣。她喜欢烹饪吗?帮帮她吧！她喜欢运动吗?那就跟她玩!她喜欢艺术吗?跟她一起看。
　　5. Consider her opinion before making a decision. Ask her what she thinks and honestly consider it.
　　在做决定之前考虑她的意见。问问她的想法并诚实地考虑。
　　6. Be forgiving. There is no better way to love someone than to openly forgive and forget. Holding a grudge 5 will not improve your relationship.
　　要宽容。没什么比原谅遗忘更能表现出你爱一个人。怀有怨恨不会改善你们的关系。
　　7. Plan a small trip. Take her to a place where you can spend quality time.
　　计划一次小远行。带她去一个值得的地方。
　　8. Set goals together. If you know from each other what you are working toward 6, it is easier to support each other. Also, having goals together will bring you closer.
　　一起制定一个目标。如果你们都知道彼此的努力方向，那么互相支持就变得很容易了。同样，有共同的目标也会让你们走得更近。
　　9.Admit your mistakes. Being open and honest, showing that you too are imperfect will make her feel closer to you.
　　承认你的错误。开成公布的表明你的不完美也会让她感觉更能接近你。
　　10.Have her back. If you get in a situation where you have to choose between your wife and others, choose her. Especially when it is a situation with your family. She already feels like she took you away from them, she needs to feel that you don’t hold that against her.
　　选择她。如果你处在一个必须在妻子和其他人中选择一个的情境中，那就选择她。特别是与你的家人之间作选择的时候。她已经感觉到是她让你远离他们,她需要感觉到你不会因此反对她。
　　11. Give her a mini massage 7, like a backrub. Who doesn’t enjoy attention like that?
　　给她一个迷你按摩,像背部按摩。谁会不喜欢这样的关注？
　　12. If she’s not feeling well, even just a headache, make sure you help her out as much as possible. She takes care of you all the time, so show her you appreciate that by taking care of her.
　　如果她不舒服,哪怕只是头痛,你也一定要尽可能多的帮她。她一直都需要你的照顾,那就表现出你知道要照顾她。
　　13. When she asks you to help out with something, don’t respond 8 annoyed 9. Show her you don’t mind giving a hand. She doesn’t enjoy everything she needs to do either, but someone has to do it.
　　当她让你帮忙做事的时候,不要生气的回答。告诉她,你不介意帮她。她不喜欢什么都要她去做,但总得有人去做。
　　14.When you discus 10 a serious subject, don’t go off joking around.Peacefully listen and talk.
　　当你们在讨论一个严肃的话题时不要开玩笑。和平交谈,听听她们的想法。
　　15.When having a conversation, look her in the eye. Show her that you are listening. Don’t get distracted 11.
　　谈话的时候,看着她的眼睛。表现出你在听她说，不要分心。
　　16. Spend as much time as possible with her. She wants to feel like she is the most important person in the world to you. Spending time is the number one thing you do with the number one person in your life.
　　尽量花时间陪伴她。她想觉得对你而言她是世界上最重要的人。和最重要的人共度时光是生活中最重要的一件事。
　　17. Put effort into looking good. Workout, shave, shower, put on some deodorant 12. Whatever makes her feel attracted to you, do it.
　　尽力让自己变得好看。锻炼，刮胡子,洗澡,喷一些除臭剂。只要是能吸引到她的事情，那就去做。
　　18. Help out around the house, without special recognition 13! You don’t have to brag 14 about doing something that she does every day.
　　帮助解决房子周围的困难，没有特殊的标志。你不需要吹嘘她每天做她做的事情。
　　19.Be supportive. When she shows that something she wants to do means 15 a lot to her, support her. I wanted to be a writer and told my husband, and see where I am today, writing!
　　支持她。当她说她想做对她而言有意义的事，那就支持她。我想成为一个作家,然后告诉了我丈夫,之后就有了今天的我,在写作的我。
　　20.If she says something is bothering her, don’t ignore it. Talk about it. Small things that stay on your mind, will grow into big things that are hard to solve.
　　如果她说她有心事,你不要忽略。和她交流交流。现在在你心里是小事情,以后将会变成很难解决的大事。
　　21. Work on yourself. Everyone changes over time. When she mentions some behavior that she doesn’t appreciate, show her you are trying to improve on it.
　　为了自己而努力。每个人都随着时间而改变。当她提到的某些行为是她不喜欢的,那就告诉她你想改。
　　22. Surprise her. Give her a lovely card or letter. Show up with flowers. Buy her that bracelet 16 she wanted. Anything small is good. Surprises are what keep your relationship alive.
　　让她惊讶。给她一个可爱的卡片或信件。送鲜花。给她买她想要的手镯。什么小东西都可以。惊喜会让你们的感情变得有活力。
　　23. When in a relaxed state, make her comfortable. For example, when watching tv, sit close and cuddle her or hold her hand.
　　当她在一个放松的状态时会让她舒服。例如,在看电视的时候坐近一点,抱着她或握住她的手。
　　24. Let her know you think of her when you are not together, by texting or calling.
　　让她知道你和她没在一起的时候可以通过发短信或者打电话让她知道你是想她的。
　　25. Be pro-active. If she notices that you are trying the best you can at all times, she will respect you for that.
　　态度是积极的。如果她发现你一直在尝试着做最好的你自己,那样她会尊重你。