礼仪英语：说话要委婉
英语课
如果当我们碰到一些残疾人，无论他们是瞎子或者是聋子，或者是其他的，我们都不要直接说出来，不然会冒犯到别人。谁也不想让人把自己的缺陷表露无疑。那么，我们在说话的时候就要委婉一些，要理解他人的感受。
陈豪在北京的ABC美国公司工作，下班后跟美国同事Amy一起往外走。
(Office ambience)
CH：Hi Amy. 碰上你太好了！
A: I haven't seen you all day. Is there something on your mind?
CH: 你还记得不久前，我们那儿来了个坐轮椅的新同事吗？
A: Yes, and we talked about your being uncomfortable around her because you weren't sure what to do.
CH: 现在好多了，我们已经成了好朋友。要是我什么地方做得不得体，她会直截了当地告诉我。
A: What do you mean?
CH: 比如说那天，我们一起聊天，她就很客气地告诉我，不应该把她的轮椅当家具，倚在上面。
A: It soun ds as if you are handling this issue well.
CH: 可是，有时候遇到其它handicapped的人，我还是有点儿不知所措。
A: First of all, you shouldn't refer to those people as handicapped. That is something of an old-fashioned term that is demeaning to many.
CH: 不说handicapped残疾人，那要怎么说呢？
A: Refer to these employees as having a disability. It shows more respect.
CH: 这么说是不是太笼统了？别人会问，是什么样的残疾。比如说，我们办公室的Mary就是个聋子。
A: If someone asks you what kind of disability, your response is not "She's deaf." Instead you say, "She has a hearing impairment or a hearing problem.
CH: 听力有障碍？那不就是聋子嘛！这不是一回事吗？
A: I'll explain it tomorrow. I have to meet some friends for dinner now.
C: 那好，明天见。
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第二天在办公室。
CH: Hi Amy, 昨天你说，不应该说Mary聋子，应该说Mary听力有缺陷。这是为什么？
A: Because then you are describing her by her disability. If she had a disease, you wouldn't identify her by that. For example, if she had measles 1, you wouldn't say, "She's measles."
CH: 这倒也是。那除了耳朵聋要说听力有缺陷，其它身体残碍是不是也不能直说呢？
A: Nowadays, you wouldn't say that a person is blind today. You would use the term visually impaired 2 to describe the person.
CH: 不说盲人，要说视力有缺陷。要是瘸子呢？
A: Just say that he has a disability.
CH: 看来，在这方面，我还真得注意，否则一不小心就会冒犯别人。Amy, 你能再重复一下吗？
A: Sure. We say visually-impaired, not blind. It's hearing-impaired, and not deaf. Use person with a disability rather than crippled, and person who uses a wheelchair, rather than wheelchair bound.
n.麻疹，风疹，包虫病，痧子
- The doctor is quite definite about Tom having measles.医生十分肯定汤姆得了麻疹。
- The doctor told her to watch out for symptoms of measles.医生叫她注意麻疹出现的症状。
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