人物:拯救黛米·洛瓦托(3)

 The strategy worked: Lovato cut out enablers and found love with then-boyfriend Wilmer Valderrama, 38, whom she dated for nearly six years before they split in June 2016. 这一策略奏效了：洛瓦托抛弃了那些推动者，与当时38岁的男友威尔默·瓦尔德拉玛(Wilmer Valderrama)相爱。瓦尔德拉玛与她相处了近6年，之后在2016年6月分手。

"(We) started dating when I turned 18. Right after that, I went to rehab," Lovato said in her 2017 YouTube documentary Demi Lovato: Simply Complicated. “我们在我18岁的时候开始约会。之后，我去了戒毒所。”在2017年的YouTube纪录片《黛米·洛瓦托：简单的复杂》中，洛瓦托说道。
"People told him, 'You should probably leave. She's on a spiral, and you're going to be sucked down with it,' " she said in 2015. “人们对他说，‘你应该离开。她正在走下坡路，你会被连累的，”她在2015年说。
"But he was like, 'I'm not leaving. This is somebody I really care about.' " “但他说，‘我不会离开。’”这是我真正在乎的人。’”
Thanks to that support, Lovato made her way back, appearing on The X Factor while in her sober-living house and releasing three chart-topping albums. 在这样的支持下，洛瓦托又回来了，她参加了《X音素》，当时她还住在自己安静的房子里，发行了三张排行榜冠军专辑。
Headlining sold-out arena 1 shows helped Lovato find her voice as an activist 2, speaking out for mental-health causes, women's issues and campaigning for Hillary Clinton. 座无虚席的舞台秀让洛瓦托作为一名活动家发出了自己的声音，为精神健康事业、妇女问题和希拉里·克林顿的竞选活动大声疾呼。
She also became a co-owner of the CAST Centers, the Los Angeles mental-health-and-wellness treatment facility where she initially 3 sought help. 她还成为了洛杉矶心理健康治疗中心(CAST Centers)的共同所有人，她最初在那里接受治疗。
But the nonstop pace of her career ran headlong into efforts to find inner peace. 但是，事业上不停歇的步伐却打乱了她寻求内心平静的脚步。
"She needs to get out of this whole system that she's been in since she was 13," says a former member of the singer's inner circle. “她需要摆脱这个从13岁开始就一直生存其中的体系，”歌手的前密友表示。
"Demi never had a day off." Like many former child stars, she is also the breadwinner in her family and ultimately calls the shots. “黛米一天休息时间也没有。”和许多前童星一样，她也是家里的经济支柱，可以发号施令。
"Her mother is a very sweet person who has zero say," says the source. “她的母亲是一个非常温和的人，没有什么发言权，”消息人士说。
"Even at 16, one day Demi's like, 'I'm paying the bills of this house. This is my house.' Dianna loves her daughter and wants her to get better. “甚至在16岁的时候，有一天黛米就会说，‘我在为这所房子买单。这是我的房子。’戴安娜爱她的女儿，希望她能变得更好。
But if she wants to survive, she needs to get out of this business. Right now her health and her life are at stake." 但如果她想生存下去，她就得离开这个。现在她的健康和生命都岌岌可危。”
Since the overdose, Lovato's mother, stepfather Eddie De La Garza and sisters Dallas and Madison are doing their best to be of help. 由于服药过量，洛瓦托的母亲、继父埃迪·德·拉·加扎以及姐姐达拉斯和妹妹麦迪逊都在尽最大努力帮助她。
Valderrama has also been by Lovato's side since her hospitalization. 自从洛瓦托住院以来，瓦尔德拉玛也一直在她身边。
Although the pair aren't back together, "he's been her rock through some of her darkest moments," says a pal 4 close to the former couple. 虽然两人还没有复合，但“在她最黑暗的时刻，他一直是她的精神支柱，”一位与这对前情侣关系密切的朋友说。
"He's the love of her life and vice 5 versa." Loved ones want what's best for Lovato, but the next steps are up to her. “他是她生命中的挚爱，反之亦然。”爱人想要给洛瓦托最好的，但是接下来由她决定。
"The thing about an addict 6 is that you become so good at hiding it," says the longtime friend. 一位老朋友说:“瘾君子的特点是，很善于隐藏自己。”
"In the end she has to want to get help. She can't be forced into treatment. It won't work." For now, the circle around her is guardedly optimistic. “最后她必须主动寻求帮助。她不能被迫接受治疗。那没有用。”目前，她周围的人对此不很乐观。
"It's too soon to say what the next steps are in terms of treatment," says an insider. "Everyone just wants to help get her to a healthy place." 一位内部人士表示:“现在就讨论接下来的治疗步骤还为时过早。”“每个人都想帮助她达到一个健康的状态。”