2007年NPR美国国家公共电台三月-The Guts to Keep Going

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Monday is the day that NPR brings you the series This I Believe. Amy Lyles Wilson is our guest today. She writes about feeling a very big change through a very small moment. She's a writer and editor from Nashville, Tennessee, and had stood the Vanderbilt Divinity School, and she's introduced here by our series curator Jay Allison.

People who sent us essays often ground their beliefs in what they were taught by their mothers and fathers when they were young. Amy Lyles Wilson's belief is inspired by her mother, but she acquired it only recently. Here she is with her essay for This I Believe.

I believe in old women who learn new tricks--gutsy, wrinkled broads who eat alone in restaurants and pump their own gas. When my father died 6 years ago, my mother, then 79 had already done quite a lot. She had moved from her hometown in Mississippi to work in the big city even though many of her generation stayed put. She had raised 3 daughters, chaired PTAs, volunteered for a host of causes and nursed her husband through / heart surgery. Along the way she lost a breast and part of her colon 5 to cancer. What she had not done before Daddy's death, however, was pump her own gas. After the funeral when she stopped the car at a filling station, neither of us moved. We were both waiting, I guess, for Daddy to wink 6 at us before sliding out to "fill 'er up" .

As I collected myself and turned to open the door, my mother said: I guess you'd better show me how this works. After we finished, she asked:" That's it?" " Yes, ma'am", I said, "you'll do fine." I tried not to think of all the things my mother would now have to do by herself. As we drove off, mother told me about her old friend Betty Ann, whose husband Carl had died recently. It seems Betty Ann got in the passenger seat of their new Buick and waited a full 3 minutes for Carl to appear behind the wheel before / finally hauling herself to the other side of the car and driving downtown.

Telling me this story, my mother was crying just a bit. She said:" I guess you / do what you have to do." I did not marry until age 41, so I know about pumping gas and eating alone in restaurants. But I haven't a clue what it is like to lose your soul mate unexpectedly after 52 years of marriage, leaving you to deal not only with grief, but also with car mechanics. Mother has always been a quick study, though, so it was not long before she could tell her widowed friends which Exxon had the lowest prices, which BP still offered full service, which Chevron 7 was well-lighted at dusk.

There have been other challenges for my mother, of course, since my father died. From downsizing the family home to allowing a widower 8 preacher to go Dutch with her at the Olive Garden on occasion. My mother has put one foot in front of the other with grace and fortitude 9. It is a small thing, perhaps, to believe in elderly women doing nothing more than putting gas into cars and getting themselves from point A to point B without an escort. But to my mind and heart, it's a belief in something much bigger than that---- The guts 4 to keep going.

Amy Lyles Wilson with her essay for This I Believe. If you would like to join those who like Wilson have submitted essays to our series or if you want to read what others have sent in, visit NPR. org. For This I Believe, I'm Jay Allison.

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