时间:2019-01-10 作者:英语课 分类:北师大版高中英语模块8(选修)


英语课

[00:00.79]What is that exactly?

[00:02.47]Withdrawal is when the person says nothing

[00:05.05]and tries to escape or ignore the situation.

[00:07.89]This does not solve anything

[00:09.77]and the person who withdraws 1 feels more

[00:11.74]and more angry with the other person.

[00:13.64]It bottles up feelings

[00:15.14]and can be very negative in the long term.

[00:17.08]Indeed. That's very true.

[00:18.73]Another possibility is to ask for mediation 2

[00:21.58]from somebody outside the situation.

[00:23.77]What do  you mean exactly by mediation?

[00:26.04]Well, this is when you give the problem

[00:28.11]to somebody outside the situation,

[00:30.52]and they decide what should happen.

[00:32.28]This can be useful,

[00:33.47]expecially if the conflict is serious.

[00:35.82]However, it's usually better

[00:37.68]to solve the problem yourself.

[00:39.51]Without dout, the best thing to do

[00:41.75]is to try to negotiate 3 with the other person.

[00:44.26]Right. So how should you go about that?

[00:46.86]To negotiate, first,

[00:48.44]you should try to explain clearly what you want

[00:51.53]What if the other person replies aggressively?

[00:53.80]I mean that often happens, doesn't it?

[00:55.55]Well, you shouldn't respond in the same way.

[00:57.89]The best thing is to rephrase what you said,

[01:00.79]and then try to find out

[01:02.08]what the other person wants,and why.

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v.取[收]回( withdraw的第三人称单数 );(使)撤退[出];提;收回
  • She never withdraws the savings to buy unwanted things. 她从不支出积蓄去买多余之物。 来自辞典例句
  • The government withdraws worn out money from use. 政府收回旧币使之不再流通。 来自辞典例句
n.调解
  • The dispute was settled by mediation of the third country. 这场争端通过第三国的斡旋而得以解决。
  • The dispute was settled by mediation. 经调解使争端得以解决。
v.洽谈,协商,谈判,顺利通过,成功越过
  • I'll negotiate with their coach on the date of the match.我将与他们的教练磋商比赛的日期问题。
  • I managed to negotiate successfully with the authorities.我设法同当局进行了成功的协商。
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