时间:2019-01-08 作者:英语课 分类:阅读空间


英语课

 How to Create Your Life Story Exactly How You Want it to Be


We all have a life story we’re trying to live. But the thing is that we never know how long we have to tell it, meaning it’s that much more challenging to create your life story as you want it to be.


For example, I’m sure you’ve heard that the world is going to end this year. Well…probably. Okay…maybe not.
There is quite a bit of debate about it, but I think most agree that it probably isn’t going to literally 1 end. It may, instead, be the end of an era.
But what if the world really did end on December 21? Where would you want to be? Who would you want to spend your last few minutes with? What would you want to be doing?
I’m going to go out on a limb and say that you wouldn’t want to be fighting with your spouse 2. Or yelling at your kids, or doing something mundane 3 like watching old reruns on TV. You would like to be doing something significant and meaningful. You would like to have a special moment.
And who says you will? Statistics.
If you spend a lot of time currently fighting with your spouse or engaging in power struggles, pushing their buttons or bumping heads, statistics says there’s a very high probability you will die that way. If you spend more time thinking loving thoughts about your spouse and you frequently show your appreciation 4 for him/her, then that is more likely to be the theme playing out when the world ends. If you work a lot, frankly 5, you’re pretty likely to die at your desk checking email.
Activities you do frequently become habits. Breaking a habit takes a concerted effort. All activities have attitudes behind them, and those attitudes are fueled by beliefs. Beliefs are simply thoughts that you keep thinking, so why not change your thoughts? What attitudes or beliefs might be making you do the things you do?
Suppose you often fight with your spouse and you love to push his/her buttons. However, you can see that once you get going, he/she pushes yours and the two of you end up fighting. What attitude is behind your desire to push those buttons? Are you simply looking for a reaction? Are you angry about something else you are afraid to talk to him/her about? Are you frustrated 6 with the lack of control you feel you have in your life? Are you frustrated because you feel like you are being manipulated? Spend a few minutes and boldly go where you haven’t gone before — what are the attitudes or beliefs behind your actions? (Don’t get sidetracked trying to analyze 7 your spouse.)
Once you see a belief, you can look it in the eye and decide if you want to keep it. Beliefs, although often handed down to us from our parents, are optional. You can choose what you want to continue to believe and what beliefs you want to change. They are not facts! You can change a belief at any time, and if you want to do so, you have several options. You can punch holes in the belief with facts or things you know to be true. Ultimately, you will have to think new thoughts to counter the belief and replace it. Every time it pops up, you will need to remind yourself of your new thoughts/belief, so make some notes to yourself and do some journaling. This is similar to breaking a habit, and it could take up to three weeks to change, but keep at it.
Whether or not the world ends in December or not, we will all have a moment when it’s time for us to go. Death is a part of life, and life is all about the invisible treasures — sweet moments with loved ones, memories of happy times and silly kids. You have the power to create your life story — and death story — exactly how you want it to be.

adv.照字面意义,逐字地;确实
  • He translated the passage literally.他逐字逐句地翻译这段文字。
  • Sometimes she would not sit down till she was literally faint.有时候,她不走到真正要昏厥了,决不肯坐下来。
n.配偶(指夫或妻)
  • Her spouse will come to see her on Sunday.她的丈夫星期天要来看她。
  • What is the best way to keep your spouse happy in the marriage?在婚姻中保持配偶幸福的最好方法是什么?
adj.平凡的;尘世的;宇宙的
  • I hope I can get an interesting job and not something mundane.我希望我可以得到的是一份有趣的工作,而不是一份平凡无奇的。
  • I find it humorous sometimes that even the most mundane occurrences can have an impact on our awareness.我发现生活有时挺诙谐的,即使是最平凡的事情也能影响我们的感知。
n.评价;欣赏;感谢;领会,理解;价格上涨
  • I would like to express my appreciation and thanks to you all.我想对你们所有人表达我的感激和谢意。
  • I'll be sending them a donation in appreciation of their help.我将送给他们一笔捐款以感谢他们的帮助。
adv.坦白地,直率地;坦率地说
  • To speak frankly, I don't like the idea at all.老实说,我一点也不赞成这个主意。
  • Frankly speaking, I'm not opposed to reform.坦率地说,我不反对改革。
adj.挫败的,失意的,泄气的v.使不成功( frustrate的过去式和过去分词 );挫败;使受挫折;令人沮丧
  • It's very easy to get frustrated in this job. 这个工作很容易令人懊恼。
  • The bad weather frustrated all our hopes of going out. 恶劣的天气破坏了我们出行的愿望。 来自《简明英汉词典》
vt.分析,解析 (=analyse)
  • We should analyze the cause and effect of this event.我们应该分析这场事变的因果。
  • The teacher tried to analyze the cause of our failure.老师设法分析我们失败的原因。
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a race against time
acronymically
administrative terminal system (ats)
aubstitute
backstrokers
basebred
beat billy
Brevibacillus
bureau of justice statistics
cage up
camera strap
cartridge receiver
catterick garrison
charge indicator relay
clelea formosana
coelodera penicillata formosana
core constituent
dealbata
Decatur I.
dechoker
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difficult-to-detect
dis proving
Donja Gračenica
ectopic heart
Edwardite
efficiency of frontier
excess horse power
exursion
field-frequency square wave
freak wave
functional foods
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galactic disk
gas refrigerator
gik
habberdehoy
hold ladder
htf
import deposit rate
Indian National Congress
inside glazing
institution activation date
Japanese Islands
leinecker
lidens
light-off detector
little gulls
Magnetic Head Pulley
mammonization
medical audit
melting under white slag
moderate-to-severe
naphthoresorcine
natalensis
nationhood
Nervus hypogastricus sinister
Newf.
North Marston
noun clauses
open coil winding
order Heterotrichales
over-optimism
pay-packets
pencil shape beam radar
permanent disturbance
personal device
plexus chorioideus
proper value
Pudelpointer
radiolytic attact
railway equipment
risk benefit ratio
roll damper actuator
roman font
rough workpiece surface
Salmonella-Shigella agar
shift operation
sieving
sight-reading
single distribution liquidation
single-cylinder
sinusoidal distribution
skin drying mould
sonic bang
stratigraphic modeling
superlatives
Syacium
synchro generator
testing apparatus
throttle controller
thymothymectomies
typical profile
uniform cross section
unipotent stem cell
us la
venture company
water-use for hydropower
whale liver oil
wire rope extensometer
wood vinegar
zinc-carbon