时间:2018-12-26 作者:英语课 分类:时尚英语话题


英语课

  33 Trust

Are you quick to trust others? If you are, chances are you haven’t been burned. By “burned”, I’m talking about having a bad experience with trusting others. If you take someone into your confidence 1, and you trust him with a secret, and he tells someone else that secret, and you find out. Well, you’ve been burned. Say you have a kind of emotional 2 scar 3. Since the relationship has been hurt, in extreme 4 cases you might even say the bridge has been burned between you and your friend.

This happens to people lots of times. It even happened to me before. I trusted a close friend with a secret, but he violated 5 my trust and told someone else. After I found out about what he did, our friendship was never the same again. Well, I hope you haven’t had a lot of bad experiences when it comes to trusting others. I also hope you have a lot of friends you can trust, and a lot of friends that trust you. But I was thinking about gaining someone’s trust, it’s not that easy like building a bridge or relationship. You make small promises and keep them, and the trust grows. As the trust grows, you can make bigger and bigger promises. And if you keep on keeping your word, well, the trust keeps on growing.

Talk about it:

Have you ever been burned? Are you the type of person who rushes into a trusting relationship? What kind of things do you do to show you are trust worthy 6? Have you ever burned a bridge unintentionally, and found that it takes a long, long time to repair the relationship? Are you good at keeping secrets? Do people know that they can trust you? Do you believe that a man is as good as his word? What can you do to earn a person’s trust? 



1 confidence
n.信任,信托,自信,信心,把握,大胆,厚颜,过于自信,狂妄
  • We have full confidence in our victory.我们有必胜的把握。
  • I should like to exchange a few words with you in confidence.我想私下和你交换点意见。
2 emotional
adj.令人动情的;易动感情的;感情(上)的
  • Emotional people don't stop to calculate.感情容易冲动的人做事往往不加考虑。
  • This is an emotional scene in the play.这是剧中动人的一幕。
3 scar
n.伤疤,伤痕,创伤
  • This scar is from the bite of a dog.这是狗咬后留下的伤疤。
  • The tragedy left a scar on her mind.这个悲剧给她造成精神上的创伤。
4 extreme
adj.末端的,尽头的;极度的,极端的;n.极度,最大程度
  • She lived on the extreme edge of the forest.她住在森林的最边缘。
  • His views are rather extreme.他的见解相当偏激。
5 violated
亵渎( violate的过去式和过去分词 ); 违反; 侵犯; 强奸
  • Note that thick, strong angles of tibia are not violated. 注意肥厚、结实的胫骨成角部分未受损坏。
  • The soldiers violated the church by using it as a stable. 士兵们把教堂当马厩,亵渎了教堂。
6 worthy
adj.(of)值得的,配得上的;有价值的
  • I did not esteem him to be worthy of trust.我认为他不值得信赖。
  • There occurred nothing that was worthy to be mentioned.没有值得一提的事发生。
学英语单词
-bellied
acceptor for honor
aghful
Alprox
altstadts
autoionizing
Bavister's medium
beautifying
benchmark revision
beyond you
block search technique
boto
bottleneck of the market
bottom plug
box drain
branchia
bravados
burden conditioning
butlers
carniole
collision number
communis
complete primitive
contractive semigroup
dado planes
dethreading
discides
dna-fingerprinting
dorsal intercuneiform ligaments
Ebstein's lesion
efficiency of separation
electropneumatic switch operating apparatus
ex-ante
fashion steel
fiffer
finite reflux
fossa sagittales dextr? (hepatis)
frequency crossing
Galway hookers
genus galluss
genus leycesterias
glossy antshrike
gravity welding
grides
half-embryo
hemorrhoidal veins
Henle-Coenen tests
high pressures
high voltage load disconnecting switch
index (in computer programming)
individual medley
inescation
intensity match
joint free
joyste
kerswell
Kobe Marine Observatory
kwise
langtra
low current
mainshaft bearing cap gasket
mault
membrane strain
misdiscovered
monomeric
mulberry leaves supplying
Musaba
musteline mammal
NHNF
not getting anywhere
offsets to long-term debt
papabote
peanut brittle
Rana versabilis
regiomontanuss
reservoir priming
retry out
rocking oscillation
rupture of felt
Sawacol
scarpings
semiregular variables
septaria porcellana cumingiana
silbury hill
similarity theory
spinning geostationary satellite
stene
supplie
tail gate chain bracket
Talbot law
trachycystis ussuriensis
trailed combine with transverse feed canvas
transcriptomic
unsupervised learning
urban myth
us -proof
valderrama
vapor compression evaporator
vogelstein
weighed in
West Hartford
writs of certiorari