13-Choosing Words to Create Success
时间:2019-02-07 作者:英语课 分类:摘取梦想的启蒙星
13-Choosing Words to Create Success
Did you know that you can increase your abilty to be successful by
consciously choos-ing the right words? It’s true! Let’s say you’re
motivated,excited even, to create change in your life. You’ve even
gone so far as to put your well-formed goals down in writing. From
there,you’ve determined 1 your first steps to begin the process of
changing your eating habits and exercising more. You’ve got enor-
mous enthusiasm and know exactly what it is you’re going to do. You
choose your goal for tomorrow, and then inadvertently cripple your
success before you even start. You say, “I’ll try.”
What does “I’ ll try,”mean? It means you’ve given yourself an
out.Should some obstacle surface, you now have a built-in escape
route that gets you off the hook. The word presupposes failure.It
lacks inten-tion and confidence.It says, “Alright,I’ll give it a
go,but I can’t really see it working out.”
Now observe what it feels like to say “I am”. For example, “I am
now committed to feeling good by honoring my decision to walk 20
minutes today.” If it doesn’t feel right,then you’ve selected a
goal that is something other than your natural first step.Back up and
find the action step you are ready to undertake. It doesn’t matter
how small and insignificant 2 it may seem at the time. You’re better
off starting with some-thing teeny-tiny and achieving success. Than
starting with somgthing you already know you’re not ready for. The
wise Lao-Tzu once started, “A journey of a thou-sand miles must
begin with a single step.” Make sure you are able to complete your
first step.
Perhaps having revised your initial starting point,again notice what
it feels like to say, “I am now”. This phrase directs you and says
that you have power and intention.It says that you believe in what
you are saying and you will find a way to make it happen. You’ve
made a commitment to yourself that you’ve chosen to honor.It says
that you will find a way to get it done even if things get in the
way. It means that even if difficulties pop up, you’ll find some way
to stick to your intent.
Once you find a plan of action that seems doable , forget trying to
do it, to try to do something is do not do it.instead, declare whole
-heartedly, “I am now achieving this!”
Make your success inevitable 3.
- I have determined on going to Tibet after graduation.我已决定毕业后去西藏。
- He determined to view the rooms behind the office.他决定查看一下办公室后面的房间。
- In winter the effect was found to be insignificant.在冬季,这种作用是不明显的。
- This problem was insignificant compared to others she faced.这一问题与她面临的其他问题比较起来算不得什么。
- Mary was wearing her inevitable large hat.玛丽戴着她总是戴的那顶大帽子。
- The defeat had inevitable consequences for British policy.战败对英国政策不可避免地产生了影响。