美国国家公共电台 NPR 'This Is A Moment, Honey': 'Queer Eye' Gurus Jonathan And Antoni On The Show's Magic

DAVID GREENE, HOST:

All right, grab the tissues because the Fab Five are back. "Queer Eye" on Netflix is a makeover show where five gay men with different areas of expertise 1 try to change the life of one person, a person they refer to as a hero. It's based on the Bravo show "Queer Eye For The Straight Guy," but the Netflix series has moved beyond the original mandate 2. One hero this season is a woman named Tammye Hicks.

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TAN FRANCE: For everything you do for the community, my gosh, you deserve some self-care.

TAMMYE HICKS: And you're going to make me look like a diva?

FRANCE: Oh, my gosh. You don't...

BOBBY BERK: Just like...

FRANCE: Mama, you don't even know.

HICKS: Oh, diva. Oh, diva.

FRANCE: You don't even know.

HICKS: Are you serious?

FRANCE: Yeah.

GREENE: All right, so two of the cast, Antoni Porowski and Jonathan Van Ness, joined me from our studios in New York. And I asked Jonathan why he thinks people have been flocking to the show. He says it has something to do with the current political climate.

JONATHAN VAN NESS: I call it, like, "The British Baking Show" (ph) effect...

GREENE: OK.

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VAN NESS: ...Like, because I watch this show, like, morning, noon and night, all the time. It's like my palate cleanser from the news. You just want to feel good about something. And I think that "Queer Eye" has a little bit of that magic.

GREENE: So it's taking on tough issues head-on but doing it in a way that brings us together and lets us actually tackle stuff together.

ANTONI POROWSKI: And I think we don't do it in a pushy 3 way. I mean, it's not something where we come in and we're like, we need to talk about your Trump 4 banner on your front lawn.

GREENE: Now, one thing you notice is that it's not just the heroes who show their vulnerability. So does the cast. And in Tammye Hicks' episode, Antoni reacted to hearing how Tammye initially 5 disapproved 6 of her son being gay because of her religion but later came to terms with it.

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POROWSKI: She saw the individual. She saw the person that her son is, and she changed her mind. She says that it was a religious experience, but she made that choice. Not all parents do that.

GREENE: And I asked Antoni what he meant.

POROWSKI: That was really an episode where I think the tables were turned. With Tammye, it was really switched. And I feel like she called us out on a lot of our stuff and really brought a lot of things to light. I'll kind of leave it as - I've had a problematic relationship growing up with my parents. Things are a lot better right now, but it's definitely been a work in progress. And unconditional 7 love from a parent is not something that I take for granted.

And to see somebody like Tammye who is so embedded 8 in her religion - it's something that's very important to her - and was able to realize it wasn't the Bible, it wasn't religion. It was the way that she chose to look at her son being gay and how he was or wasn't accepted into the church. Whenever I see a parent showing unconditional love for their child, I have a very soft spot for all the moms out there.

GREENE: Was there any discussion in the edit about, like, how much you wanted that to be in there? I mean, presumably...

POROWSKI: There actually...

GREENE: ...You know, your family would, you know, see this.

POROWSKI: Yeah, there was. With me - it's tricky 9 because it's an opportunity to have people relate. But at the same time, I do want to try to maintain some kind of, like, privacy and respect for my family. Families are tricky. I come from a really dysfunctional one. I haven't shied away from saying that. But I still have love for every single one of them. And it's something that I think we're working on, and everyone's doing it in their own way. And it's something that I'm learning in an exponential way. It's this - like, the growth curve is very steep. But I'm kind of figuring it out. And - yeah.

GREENE: Last season, you guys made over a gay man. And this new season, two of your heroes, as you call them, are "Queer Eye" firsts, I think. One is a transgender man. Another is a woman. Was it important to you guys to break the mold?

VAN NESS: Yes. I think inclusivity and getting to spread the love as far and wide as possible was something that was, like, really important to us. Tammye's story especially - like, so much of what she struggles with, so many moms and women and men, actually, struggle with - nurturing 10 other people to a point where you lost sight of, like, taking care of yourself and equating 11 self-care with selfishness. And so I was really excited for Tammye for that because it's like that whole airplane adage 12. Like, you have to put your little mask on first because if your little mask isn't on, like, how are you going to help me get my mask on?

POROWSKI: Right.

GREENE: (Laughter) Then you can't help the children put their masks on.

VAN NESS: Exactly.

POROWSKI: I love that adage.

VAN NESS: And so in, like, giving so much of yourself all the time, like, you won't have much left to give if you don't nurture 13 yourself a little bit. And I think most of us want to do the best that we can. And I think that a lot of us struggle with people-pleasing - I know I do. And so sometimes, you know, saying like - no, I'm going to do this for myself - is, like, very difficult.

GREENE: Are you guys part of a cultural moment?

VAN NESS: Yes, it does feel like we're having, like, a cultural moment. Being in a group of people that has, like, become known for helping 14 people and, like, wanting to lift people up and, like, be kind and be loving, none of us are really saying that we're, like, all the way experts. Like, I think that we're just as much students and just as much learning as anyone else. And that is, like, such a fun opportunity to, like, say like - hey, I've been doing this for a long time, but I don't know everything. But I'd like to, like, teach you what I know so far. And, like, let's go on this little journey together. And like, that feels like a little cultural moment that's different.

GREENE: OK. I need you guys to be honest before I let you go. Do you really get along, the five of you, as well as it seems? I mean, you, like, squeezed into a pickup 15 truck...

POROWSKI: We're holding hands as we speak.

GREENE: ...Driving everywhere. Really?

VAN NESS: Well, no - well, OK, I'll get honest.

GREENE: OK, great.

VAN NESS: I'm going to get so honest right now.

GREENE: You hate each other is what you're about to tell me.

VAN NESS: No, no - no, actually we really do love each other. I would say the only time when, unequivocally, like, the four of my little baby cast mates just really are, like - they're just not here for me. And when it's 7 in the morning or, like, 6:45 and I have had my...

POROWSKI: Just for the record, he's talking about me specifically because he just gave me a little...

VAN NESS: And I've had like...

GREENE: OK (laughter).

VAN NESS: And I've had my second venti, honey. Sometimes I'll get a little bit vocal 16. I might start scream-cry-singing a little bit of Kelly Clarkson at 6:45 a.m. And I don't think that's asking too much for your friends to just listen to your Kelly Clarkson song and just let you have your moment and not...

POROWSKI: You just wake up more quickly than I do. And it takes me time.

VAN NESS: Not only do they shut me down, but they have the nerve to, like, jump like they're scared of my voice because, like, if I'm right behind your head and start singing and you're not ready for it...

POROWSKI: Again, read they as Antoni. It was one incident.

VAN NESS: It happened one time, and I'm not over it.

POROWSKI: It was one time. I was sitting in the front seat, and he started busting 17 out Kelly Clarkson. And I just did this thing with my shoulders where I, like, lifted them and I crunched 18 a little.

VAN NESS: OK. First of all...

POROWSKI: And he reminds me to this day - to this day.

VAN NESS: And also, can I just tell you that it was that "Hamilton" remix of "It's Quiet Uptown" that I was singing?

POROWSKI: Oh, that's what it was.

VAN NESS: And it was gorgeous. It's so pretty.

GREENE: (Laughter).

POROWSKI: It wasn't not gorgeous. But some of us just need a little more time to wake up.

VAN NESS: I was on pitch, honey.

GREENE: (Laughter).

VAN NESS: But no, truthfully, we really do love each other (laughter). And it feels universal between the five of us. It's like, no one's going to say something about one of my brothers in front of me that, like, I don't like.

POROWSKI: Right.

VAN NESS: And, you know, not like in, like, a mean, like, diva way but, like, this is my family, and, like - they're just my family. And we're really lucky for this.

POROWSKI: What we do on the show is kind of what we do in real life. It's really, like - it's all support, all positivity.

VAN NESS: Unless it's 6:45 in the morning and I had, like, three coffees and "The Hamilton Mixtape" is on and like in someone's - yeah.

POROWSKI: One time - it happened one time.

VAN NESS: It was just - but for the most part, we're very much love.

GREENE: Just the once. It was just once.

POROWSKI: It's good that you don't hold resentments 19.

VAN NESS: She doesn't.

POROWSKI: That's what I like about you.

GREENE: Oh, guys, this has been really fun.

VAN NESS: Thanks for having us.

POROWSKI: Thanks for having us.

GREENE: Best of luck with the second season. Yeah, let's talk again sometime.

VAN NESS: Yay.

POROWSKI: Thank you.

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BETTY WHO: (Singing) Oh, yeah. Things keep getting better. Things keep getting better.

GREENE: Two members of the "Queer Eye" cast, Jonathan Van Ness and Antoni Porowski. Season 2 is on Netflix right now.